I realized that most of the couples around couldn't maintain a relationship and make it last. Yes, including me. I had so many failed relationship and I'm definitely yearning for one that can last. Sometimes its not that there's no love in the relationship. But its the actions and how both maintain the relationship. Here's the article that i have found.
Maintaining a relationship over time is not an easy task. Friends or lovers for lifetimes? Both of this relationship has its own meaning to us. Of course, they have different meanings but how you want to keep all these relationships grow like a tree or a flower. It needs food and loving care and time to go strong and become of lasting nature, test by hurricane and darkness of life. But a relationship to persist all troubles of life, all downs, all “bad times” all wars and crisis of creation needs more than just a bare “IDEA” of I LOVE YOU.
1. In a relationship, you need to trust each other. Once relationship has undergone the initial delicate phase, the partner may participate more and more in normal life activities. Be together and venture into the storm of life in various part of the planet. Relationship will gain experience and confidence when both of you exposed to other people and dealing with difficult situation and difficult political or cultural environments.
2.A relationship needs daily cares just like a plant. Here on earth a relationship without a daily care and direct loves just like a young plant in the desert of Sahara in a hot and cold sand-storm. NO chance to survive or even grow strong. A partner needs your tender sweet loving care and affection. Daily. A relationship without daily mutual experiences and loving care is scheduled to break apart.
3.A relationship needs a daily spiritual love. Truly flowing spiritual energy from soul to soul direct or indirect. If indirect spiritual love is given, then more hours of indirect love are needed or the relationship will grow slower and be weaker or fragile or possibly break apart. God is resource for all spiritual love.
4.A relationship needs to share. In a well established and well maintained relationship, one day there will be more and more occasions to share with others. Share love, food, financial resources, help, and advice or supply products of their mutual creative and productive work for the joy and benefit of all creation. If you share positive ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.
5.A relationship needs a good communication. Like a plant without nutrient, minerals or fertilizer it can’t grow healthy and stronger. So, do us. Keep a good communication in you daily life. Try to solve any problem without scratching each other but having a talk and all can be saved. Listening to each other. It strengthens the bond between two partners.
6.A relationship needs a well understanding. Want to build a strong relationship? This is one of the important things you should cares about. Take care of all your beloved ones. Remember! They want you to understand them and think about their needs or welfare. What do they like and what they hates most. And believe me, you’ll get benefit in return. Love needs to flow to grow, love needs to be dynamic and varied, but always as direct as possible.
Maintaining a relationship over time is not an easy task. Friends or lovers for lifetimes? Both of this relationship has its own meaning to us. Of course, they have different meanings but how you want to keep all these relationships grow like a tree or a flower. It needs food and loving care and time to go strong and become of lasting nature, test by hurricane and darkness of life. But a relationship to persist all troubles of life, all downs, all “bad times” all wars and crisis of creation needs more than just a bare “IDEA” of I LOVE YOU.
1. In a relationship, you need to trust each other. Once relationship has undergone the initial delicate phase, the partner may participate more and more in normal life activities. Be together and venture into the storm of life in various part of the planet. Relationship will gain experience and confidence when both of you exposed to other people and dealing with difficult situation and difficult political or cultural environments.
2.A relationship needs daily cares just like a plant. Here on earth a relationship without a daily care and direct loves just like a young plant in the desert of Sahara in a hot and cold sand-storm. NO chance to survive or even grow strong. A partner needs your tender sweet loving care and affection. Daily. A relationship without daily mutual experiences and loving care is scheduled to break apart.
3.A relationship needs a daily spiritual love. Truly flowing spiritual energy from soul to soul direct or indirect. If indirect spiritual love is given, then more hours of indirect love are needed or the relationship will grow slower and be weaker or fragile or possibly break apart. God is resource for all spiritual love.
4.A relationship needs to share. In a well established and well maintained relationship, one day there will be more and more occasions to share with others. Share love, food, financial resources, help, and advice or supply products of their mutual creative and productive work for the joy and benefit of all creation. If you share positive ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.
5.A relationship needs a good communication. Like a plant without nutrient, minerals or fertilizer it can’t grow healthy and stronger. So, do us. Keep a good communication in you daily life. Try to solve any problem without scratching each other but having a talk and all can be saved. Listening to each other. It strengthens the bond between two partners.
6.A relationship needs a well understanding. Want to build a strong relationship? This is one of the important things you should cares about. Take care of all your beloved ones. Remember! They want you to understand them and think about their needs or welfare. What do they like and what they hates most. And believe me, you’ll get benefit in return. Love needs to flow to grow, love needs to be dynamic and varied, but always as direct as possible.